Dilworth School pays tribute to one of its most distinguished Old Boys, Robert Bruce Stewart, Class of 1971—Rhodes Scholar, Queen’s Counsel, sportsman, mentor, friend, husband, father and grandfather. Bruce’s life was a testament to the values of fearlessness, tenacity, and generosity, and his life and legacy continue to inspire generations of Dilworthians.
Bruce’s Dilworth journey began in 1962 when, at just eight years old, he joined the School. Even then, his confidence and precocious nature set him apart. Coming from a family deeply rooted in Dilworth’s history—his father Bob and uncle Don were both Old Boys, and his brothers David and Colin would follow—Bruce quickly made his mark. His early years were filled with achievements in academics, sport, and leadership, laying the foundation for a life of extraordinary accomplishment.
Bruce was a gifted athlete, though not by natural talent alone. He honed his skills through relentless effort and discipline. He dominated middle-distance running, consistently winning the 880-yard and cross-country events. On the rugby field, he could be relied on for some excellent midfield manoeuvres and tactics. But it was in cricket that Bruce truly shone.
From his early days at Dilworth, he was selected for the Auckland Brabin Cup team. Bruce’s abilities were legendary. His batting was patient and precise, his bowling formidable, and his leadership as captain inspiring. He was the first to earn a coveted cricket bat from Denis Bradburn, his Sports teacher and cricket coach, for scoring a century—a feat he repeated so often that the rules had to be changed.
Under Denis Bradburn’s guidance, Bruce learned the importance of fitness, courage, and integrity. Their relationship was marked by mutual respect and a shared commitment to excellence. In one memory shared with us, a young Bruce boldly told Denis that "the Boarding House needed a shake-up". Rather than telling him off for being cheeky, Denis challenged Bruce to take charge for a day—a lesson in leadership that Bruce embraced with his typical enthusiasm.
Academically, Bruce was equally talented. After missing out on a class prize in his first year, he resolved to win it every year thereafter—and did. At graduation time, he was awarded the Ludbrook Cup for Best All-Round Student, a recognition of his excellence across academics, sport, drama, and debate. His debating skills, sharpened through some spirited inter-house competitions, laid the groundwork for his future legal career. Though he lost his first debate, judged by a magistrate, Bruce’s passion for justice and eloquence would later make him one of New Zealand’s most respected legal minds.
Bruce’s legal career was also quite remarkable. After earning a coveted and extremely hard-to-get Rhodes Scholarship in 1974, leading him to Oxford, he later joined what would become Simpson Grierson, where he quickly became known not only for his legal acumen but also for his larger-than-life personality. His colleagues recall him as a tireless advocate, a master of courtroom strategy, and a mentor who generously shared his work and wisdom.
Bruce’s approach to law was fearless. He believed in fighting for what was right, often taking on pro bono cases for those who couldn’t afford representation.
His time at Simpson Grierson was filled with unforgettable moments. Bruce was a connoisseur of the “long lunch,” frequenting Auckland’s finest restaurants with gusto. He was a master storyteller. His wit, humour, and love for an audience made him a beloved figure in both legal and social circles.
Bruce’s commitment to his clients was unwavering. He pursued the law with relentless energy, whether representing corporate giants or underdogs. He once went so far as to serve a court document on the Minister of Justice within Parliament grounds, earning a summons for contempt. Even then, Bruce’s charm and contrition saw him through.
After leaving Simpson Grierson, Bruce was appointed Queen’s Counsel (now King's Counsel)—a recognition of his exceptional legal talent. Yet, he remained the same Bruce: candid, generous, and full of life. He mentored countless lawyers over the years, including his wife Anna, who rose to become a leader in her own right. Bruce’s home in Remuera and his Bach on Waiheke were open to all, embodying his “Mi casa, su casa” philosophy. He was generous, often to a fault; once pledging a donation to Telethon on behalf of the firm without prior approval, arguing that it was disgraceful they hadn’t donated sooner.
In his final years, Bruce faced illness with the same courage that defined his life. A dinner held in his honour during his retirement allowed friends and family to celebrate his legacy while he could still enjoy it. His passing leaves a void in the hearts of many, but his stories, achievements, and spirit live on.
Over 500 people attended his memorial service held at Dilworth’s St Patrick’s Chapel, in honour and in celebration of his life, lived to the fullest.
To Bruce’s wife—Anna, children—Charlie, Brittany, Charlotte, and brothers—David and Colin—and to all who knew and loved him, Dilworth offers its deepest condolences. Bruce Stewart was not just an exceptional Old Boy; he was a friend and mentor to many. His life exemplified the School’s motto: Firmiter et Fideliter—strong with steadfast purpose.
Rest in peace, Bruce. You will be profoundly missed.
